When you are with someone a long time sometimes you may need a reminder why you fell in love in the first place. Every once in a while you may have to rekindle the spark , in your relationship . Here are some ways to spark things up ! 1) Try spontaneous , Plan a surprise picnic and watch the sunset with your partner , cook a romantic dinner , or plan a weekend getaway trip . 2) Staying physical can help to spark things up , Give them a passionate kiss , hold hands , offer a full body massage , even cuddling can be a great benefit to staying close to your partner and connecting mentally. 3) Show affection to your partner express your feelings , express loving words that affirm you care . You can remind your spouse they are important , spend quality time or possibly gift a thoughtful gift This can help your partner feel loved. 4) Listen to your partner show them that their feeling matter , ask about his or her day. When you Express what they feel matters this can help your spouse feel loved. 5) Don't expect thing to be prefect Communicate your needs and wants talk to your spouse. know that its okay to forgive your partner , build and learn from your mistakes . Understand that you are human and relationships have ups and downs , but be hopeful and have faith. Try to be the best partner you can be , but don't make the relationship all about you. Put positive energy and time into having a healthy relationship.