As you can Imagine its hard to make time for yourself or even your spouse when you have a newborn baby . After you have a baby thing can get a little more complicated , and busier for both you and your spouse . When I had my son I found myself spending more time caring for the baby , I would be tired and exhausted so when i wasn't caring for the baby I was sleeping . I noticed I spent less time with my spouse we didn't cuddle as much , didn't have date night or have much alone time . So I decided to try to find a way to plan a routine that included spending sometime together. On Saturday nights I would have my sister watch the little one while we did date night together. I started to try to nap when baby napped so that at night I wasn't as tired and we could find time to cuddle ,or talk so that we had some type of alone time together . If you've struggled with making time for you spouse and baby how did you do so ?